WHAT QUALITIES DO YOU VALUE MOST IN FRIENDS

WHAT WOULD YOU WANT IN A FRIEND?


Friendship is a relationship of two people with mutual understanding, care, affection and love coming together, in other words, it is the relationship of trust, faith and concern for each others feelings. A true friend is always there for you at all times despite all conditions and circumstances, they will always believe in you even if you don’t believe in yourself and they always keep promises. there are qualities that accrues to a friend.



The qualities that i appreciate most in a friend are :

  • Giving me unconditional love, having great sense of humor and considering me as part of their family.

  • Honesty and willingness to forgive and take chances

  • My friend must not be a liar and selfish

  • A good friend must be loyal and kind. must be someone that will listen and respond with frequent answers and must have a good heart with intelligence.

  • My friend must be unpretentious and backbiting.

  • A good friend will not hold grudges or take anything i say personally because they know i always have their best interest in mind all the time

  • They are always there especially in times of need and chaos, they are there to advice and worry about you when the need arises.

  • They accept me for who i am without judgement and criticism and are always supportive even if they don’t appreciate what i do.

  • They support me when i am right and they gladly and lovingly tell me when they feel i am wrong.

  • They are not jealous of you, but will be happy at your achievements.

WHEN YOU NEED CREATIVE INSPIRATION WHERE DO YOU GO?

THE SOURCE OF CREATIVE INSPIRATION

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Creative inspiration ……… (Photo credit: Nina Matthews Photography)
Creative Inspiration is stimulation of the mind or emotions to a high level of feeling or activity which comes as a source of enlightenment and understanding from nowhere in particular, some people suggest it to be a divine mind and some say inspiration is as a result of supernatural or divine influence. Its like somebody who is filled with enlivening or exalting emotion.  it’s just like hymns that inspire, the poet resulting from such inspiration or an inspired musician or inspired performer. Inspiration comes as a result of us willing, to express our passion and hearts desire by speaking in writing or through performance and discussion. The way by which we are individually  inspired is different from each other. some people get inspiration by going to waterfall streams, nature trailing with camera, when you need creative inspiration sometimes what you need is not what you see, but to walk and go to a quiet and relaxed place.  I have a friend who gets creative inspiration to write by going to the ocean to sit and listen to the waves. I get my inspiration by talking to people and friends what about you?

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DO YOU BLOG AND WHY?

PURPOSE OF BLOGGING

Watching and Blogging

Watching and Blogging (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

BLOGGING IS A WAY OF EXPRESSING YOUR FEELINGS EMOTIONS, OBSERVATIONS, IDEAS AND INFORMATION FOR OTHERS TO SHARE WITH, YOU BUT THE WAY WE INDIVIDUALLY BLOG IS DIFFERENT FROM EACH OTHER DEPENDING ON THE MOTION AND INSPIRATION AT THAT TIME .SOME PEOPLE GET THEIR INSPIRATION TO BLOG FROM ANGER AND WHEN THEY ARE UPSET,SOME FROM DEPRESSION AND SOME DO GET INSPIRATION TO WRITE FROM INTEREST AND HOBBY AND WILL TO WRITE WHICH HAS BECOME AN HABIT OR HOBBY.GENERALLY WE BLOG BECAUSE WE HAVE IDEAS AND INFORMATION WE WANT TO SHARE TIMELY AND FREQUENTLY AND THIS INFORMATION ARE OF DIFFERENT NATURE DEPENDS ON THE NICHE OR TOPIC THE WRITER WANTS TO TALK ABOUT. IT ALSO SERVES AS A PURPOSE OF MARKETING FOR INDIVIDUALS AND COMPANIES SELLING THEIR PRODUCTS TO THE PUBLIC. BLOG CAN ALSO BE SAID TO BE ANOTHER WAY OF RELEASING TENSION THAT HAS BEEN PILING UP IN YOUR MIND ALL THIS WHILE OR A WAY OF THROWING OUT YOUR FEELINGS OR EMOTIONS FOR OTHERS TO SHARE AND LEARN FROM .

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BLOG

TALKING ABOUT BLOGGING WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT MOTIVES AND PURPOSE TO WRITING AND DIFFERENT SITUATIONS INSPIRES US TO WRITE . FROM MY OBSERVATIONS SOME PEOPLE WRITE WHEN THEY FEEL DEPRESSED, SAD OR REALLY ANGRY THAT THEY HAVE TO LET IT OUT. TO SOME THE BEST WAY TO LET OUT THEIR BOTTLED UP EMOTIONS WITHOUT BLOWING UP IS TO BLOG. OTHER PEOPLE USE IT AS A REFERENCE POINT FOR THEM TO REMEMBER WHAT EVENTS AND EXPERIENCES THEY HAVE HAD IN THEIR LIVES AND ALSO AS A WAY OF LETTING OTHERS SHARE FROM IT BELIEVING THAT IT CAN BE OF BENEFIT TO THEM. I PERSONALLY BELIEVE THAT SHARING IDEAS IS A WAY OF LETTING OTHERS LEARN AND KNOW WHAT THEY HAVE NO KNOWLEDGE ABOUT. THINGS ARE HAPPENING ESPECIALLY AROUND US DAY IN DAY OUT. DUE TO INDIVIDUAL EXPERIENCES. THE TRUTH IS WE HAVE TO LEARN FROM EACH OTHER. WHAT DO YOU THINK?

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Boldness – TO BE BOLD AND COURAGEOUS

BOLDNESS THAT GOES WITH ACHIEVEMENT AND DESIRE

Boldness, Courage comes from the heart and desire is a thing of the mind.some of us have the will to achieve but do not have the boldness to accomplish that goal. It takes will, desire and determination to get to the crossing point where your dreams are accomplished. ” …to boldly go where no man has gone before…” These are notable words from Captain Kirk of Star Trek fame. these put into summary his team’s courageous mission. What would have been their story line in that epic and entertaining movie had the mission been ” to boldly stay?.

boldness from the heart and be courageous

Just Like so many of us, I have felt the burning desire to go and to get their first!, To go, to be an innovator, a creator, discoverer, explorer, to carve new territory and claim achievement! To be the one to arrive with the big idea, the polished plan. But maybe we need to pause just a bit longer, to know the full intent of what we want or would like to be.

boldness for love

Courage Under Fire

Events and circumstance press us to that critical moment where we either go or stay. I am confident that in more than a few of these times we took the route of “boldly going” To stay through to the determined end? There are times when you are bold but courage is needed to stay, to remain, to continue especially when the going is tough. There have been seasons in my life where I know that it was time to go. That it was time to move on to the next level. During these times it required courage of heart to act. Going around in times of crisis and instability has the thrill of the challenge and each required an amount of courage to step into it.

Boldness and Courage To Love

There is honor in seeing something to its proper end. When life gets rough and the going is not easy, why not consider the courage that it takes to boldly stay and see these things through, I wonder what opportunities we have abandoned; what learning curve we have flattened because, going was the bold and perhaps easier way. Many great men have influenced me in many ways and One of them once said, “When the going gets tough, the tough stay put.”

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