Human nature is both flexible and rigid depending on how you want to apply it to change, it’s not always easy for someone to want to change from good to bad or from bad to good as the case may be ,but change to good and better life is a possibility, before we talk more lets ask ourselves what change really means, from my layman point of view change could be a situation where you are used to doing something which has become a habit or part of you and you are now planning on throwing that habit away because it affects you and you want the people arround you to see that you are a better person. It’s not always easy to bend a dry stick or else it will break but its easy to bend it a little. To make life different and to bring happiness upon yourself, you can bring change upon yourself.
I have seen many cases of people with different habits, change to good, but initially they will say i cant change this is the way i am, some have been into drugs, womanizing, smoking and other habits but out of determination they finally change for the best, which tells me that we are really flexible or rigid which ever way we want to apply it. however if we want to improve ourselves we can,it only takes determination, resolve and some effort’s, but we can all change our lives for the better if we want to, it is not always easy, it has to come from our heart to want to change for the better and changing has to be something that matters to us deeply. when the pain of changing is more than the pain of wanting to stay the same! , we will change.
there are so many measure that is taken for change to happen:
The zeal and will to change
Determination to change for the better
The thought of realising, that what we are doing is not the best for us