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 Creating Or Writing Articles

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Article writing or content production needs some talents, special interest or flare for generating article contents or writing which will make you continuously have the mind for writing interesting and intriguing articles for your readers.  We all have different methods, ways or techniques to creating, or writing any type of article and many of us have different ways or rules to writing. For us to create good and compelling articles we need creativity to impress our audience and at the same time we have to produce enjoyable contents.  Writing important  and exciting articles needs some Inspiration, experience and strategies for producing items.

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There are so many methods to article writing but it is always good to decide the best approach to writing your articles and the style you want to use for writing which sometimes could be very important which eventually might be the avenue for productive creativity and probably will boost your article writing for your blog.   Most times, writing  the best article needs inspiration which in most cases will affect your mode of writing which will decide how much your audience will enjoy what you are writing about .  Your flare for writing is also a source of inspiration which helps and influences your method of writing a blog or any article.

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Creating blog articles is challenging sometimes, especially when trying to get a topic for your blog and when you are wondering what your next topic is and you are not sure of what to write about is sometimes very challenging.  After we decide what our topic is, we will need to make keyword searches and do our research before we finally start writing but, no matter what we write about , we need to make sure it is a topic of interest and many a times, if we already had a similar experience of what we are writing about would be an absolute source of inspiration, which will fasten our writing and motivate us as writers.

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You need to avoid writing boring articles and try producing quality contents which is going to influence your work and how you write your articles.  Where do you get your inspiration from?, It could be from an idea that you thought about or an incident that happened to you or someone else that you know about, which eventually would be a source of your inspiration. Most importantly our flare and interest in writing would go a long way.

 

Marriage – A Change Of Language From I To We

Marriage And Its Values

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Marriage as we all know is a great institution which brings two together and make them one. the word “WE” instead of the original “I”  arises because they have both been joined in holy matrimony which makes us a “WE”. 

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It is very interesting how the metamorphosis of life goes round and round starting from when we were little till when we became adults and finally decided getting married. Marriage as we all know is a great institution, the most interesting part of this great institution is graduating from “I” as a bachelor or spinster to “WE” as married couples and facing all the challenges that comes with it.

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The bible quote says “A man shall leave his father and mother and become one with his spouse” and  they shall become one, therefore everything they do or say is in harmony and agreement and decisions taken is under mutual understanding mostly from both parties.  The major reason which brings two people together in the first place is attraction which eventually develops to love over the cause of time and it is the major reason for marriage eventually.

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It makes both parties realize they have each others back as couples by getting married and these leads to going out together, doing things together, taking decisions together which is why the word “WE” is paramount in everything they do instead of the word “I” which is often used by a single person who is not committed to somebody but themselves.

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Every institution has its own language and the word “WE”  which means “two of us ” is predominant in marriage because, both have become one in decision-making and every other thing they do, therefore differentiating them from the singles and unmarried.  Now that both have become one, trust, understanding, enduring each other due to challenges of marriage is very important and the love they share will surely overcome all challenges as long as they keep standing as one.

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Love is more than words or what we can comprehend, It is more than an occasional gift. Love is a commitment to one another, It indicates our willingness to adapt to and cooperate with each other.  It is a lot of effort. When we first meet and court somebody, we are happy that someone noticed us, have interest in us and profess their feelings for us.  As the years pass, we do realize that we know more about what makes our partners happy, sad and is  important to them.

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Marriage is a change of language, because of the love that brings us together and makes us one.  Love as we all know, is the greatest reward between two partners which is the foundation of the unity in the first place, because it creates companionship, understanding with one another, sensitivity, unselfishness, tenderness and makes room for accommodation between both parties. 

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There is always a special bond or unity which makes it possible for us to appreciate and value what could be of importance to each other.  The language of marriage which makes us a “WE” instead of a “I” is the affection we show for each other by saying I love you, you are precious to me, I like being around you all the time e.t.c, some couples would say these words to each other everyday, which gives them more confidence and confirms to them, how happy they are with each other.

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WHAT MAKES YOU CRY?

WHY WOULD YOU CRY?

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HMMM!  I HAVE SEEN PEOPLE CRY AND I WONDER TO MY SELF ,WHAT WOULD MAKE A MAN  OR A WOMAN CRY?,IS IT THE EMOTION OR JUST A FEELING?, I WONDER!. I AM ALWAYS CURIOUS ABOUT THIS KIND OF ISSUES SOMETIMES AND I PRESENTED THIS ISSUE BEFORE SOME FRIENDS AND MOST OF THEM SAID ITS ALL ABOUT EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS IN DIFFERENT DIMENSIONS.

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I HAVE DIAGNOSED  AND BROWSED THROUGH MY BRAIN AND MY THOUGHTS AND  COME TO A CONCLUSION, THAT  A LOT OF THINGS COULD ACTUALLY MAKE PEOPLE CRY AND IN TRUTH, ITS ALL ABOUT EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS DEPENDING ON SITUATION OR CIRCUMSTANCES THAT WARRANTS OR MOTIVATES YOU TO CRY. JESSICA GOT A MAIL IN THE POST ,THAT SHE HAS GOTTEN ADMISSION SHE HAS WORKED VERY HARD TO GET, WHILE READING THE MAIL TEARS OF JOY STARTED STREAMING DOWN HER FACE.

WHY CRY

CRYING COMES AS A RESULT OF DIFFERENT CIRCUMSTANCES OR SITUATIONS AND THIS DEPENDS ON INDIVIDUALS:

  •  THE BIRTH OF A CHILD THAT YOU HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR, FOR A LONG TIME COULD BRING ABOUT TEARS OF JOY
  • THE DEATH OR THE PENDING DEATH OF SOMEONE CLOSE TO YOU FOR EXAMPLE PARENTS,FAMILY,FRIENDS,PETS OR JUST A WORTHWHILE AND COURAGEOUS PERSON.
  • DISAPPOINTMENT FROM A RELATIONSHIP
  • LIFE FRUSTRATION CAN BRING ABOUT TEARS
  • SOMEBODY BECAME SAD FROM WATCHING A MOVIE BECAUSE SHE WAS TOUCHED BY THE SENSATION IN THE MOVIE
  • READING TOUCHING POEMS CAN MAKE YOU CRY

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CRYING IS A RELEASE OF TENSION AND SORROW,SOMETIMES ITS GOOD TO CRY AND SOMETIMES WE DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHAT BRINGS ABOUT THE TEARS IN THE FIRST PLACE BUT GENERALLY CIRCUMSTANCES WHICH MAKES THE HEART SAD OFTEN WARRANTS US TO CRY AND MOST TIMES, IT IS ALWAYS BEYOND OUR CONTROL ESPECIALLY WHEN LOOSE A LOVED ONE, ESPECIALLY IS THEY WERE SO DEAR TO OUR HEART AND THIS CAN BE A GOOD REASON TO CRY.

INFIDELITY AND RELATIONSHIP

 INFIDELITY AS A PROBLEM IN A RELATIONSHIP

INFIDELITY IN ANY RELATIONSHIP IS A VERY BIG PROBLEM AS WE ALL KNOW, THERE ARE ALWAYS CHALLENGES IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP AND ALL RELATIONSHIP HAS A LIFE CYCLE. ITS ALWAYS INTERESTING HOW AND WHEN YOU MEET YOUR PARTNER  AND HOW YOU FALL IN LOVE  SOME CALL IT “LOVE AT FIRST SITE AND SOME SAY ITS JUST FALLING IN LOVE. AT THE BEGINNING OF A RELATIONSHIP, YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH YOUR SPOUSE, YOU APPRECIATED THEIR PHONE CALLS,WANTED THEIR TOUCH,LIKE THEIR TALK AND ADVICE AND YOU ALWAYS WANT TO LISTEN TO THEM AT ALL TIMES AND YOU ARE ALWAYS ON THE LOOKOUT FOR THEM WHEN THEY ARE NOT YET AT HOME WHEN YOU ARE THERE.

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infidelity and relationship

WAS FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOUR PARTNER REALLY A BIG DEAL?, THE TRUTH IS ,IT WAS A SPONTANEOUS EXPERIENCE WHICH BLEW YOU AWAY. YOU DID NOT HAVE TO GO THROUGH ANY PROCESS BUT SEEING IT HAPPEN NATURALLY. THAT’S WHY IT IS CALLED “FALLING” IN LOVE – BECAUSE ITS HAPPENING. MOST PEOPLE IN LOVE ALWAYS SAY “I WAS SWEPT OFF MY FEET.” THINK ABOUT WHAT THAT EXPRESSION ENTAILS. IT INDICATES THAT YOU WERE JUST STANDING THERE, DOING NOTHING,AND THEN SOMETHING CAME ALONG AND HAPPENED TO YOU.infidelity

AFTER A FEW YEARS OF MARRIAGE, THE EUPHORIA OF LOVE FADES AND CRISIS IN A RELATIONSHIP ARISES, THIS IS THE NATURAL CYCLE OF EVERY RELATIONSHIP. GRADUALLY BUT SURELY,PHONE CALLS BECOME A PROBLEM,TOUCH SOMETIMES IS NOT WELCOME AND YOUR SPOUSE’S ATTITUDE INSTEAD OF BEING CUTE AND EXCITING AS IT USED TO BE ,DRIVE YOU NUTS. THE SYMPTOMS OF THIS STAGE VARY WITH ALL RELATIONSHIP, LOOKING AT YOUR MARRIAGE ,YOU WILL REALIZE A GREAT DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE INITIAL STAGE OF FALLING IN LOVE AND A MUCH DULLER OR EVEN ANGRY SUBSEQUENT STAGE.

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AT THIS STAGE ,YOU AND/ OR YOUR SPOUSE MIGHT START ASKING THE QUESTION, WHAT MADE ME TO MARRY THIS PERSON?, WAS THIS MARRIAGE MEANT TO BE?, DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON? WHILE THIS QUESTIONS ARE GOING THROUGH YOUR MIND,YOU REFLECT ON FANTASY OF THE LOVE YOU ONCE HAD ,WHEN BOTH OF YOU WERE IN THE “GARDEN OF EDEN” FILLED WITH LOVE AND PASSION. SOME PEOPLE BEGIN TO DESIRE THAT PREVIOUS EXPERIENCE THEY HAD WITH SOMEONE ELSE.THIS IS WHERE THE “BOMB” OF DESTRUCTION SETS IN(MARRIAGES BREAKDOWN). SOME BLAME THEIR SPOUSE FOR THEIR UNHAPPINESS AND START LOOKING OUTSIDE THEIR MARRIAGE FOR FULFILLMENT, THEREBY GIVING ROOM TO INFIDELITY.

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TALKING ABOUT EXTRAMARITAL FULFILLMENT,IT COMES IN DIFFERENT SHAPES,SIZES AND DIMENSIONS. INFIDELITY IS THE MOST OBVIOUS. SOME PEOPLE TAKE SOLACE IN WORK, CHURCH, A HOBBY,  FRIENDSHIP, EXCESSIVE TV AND MOVIES OR ABUSIVE SUBSTANCES. MY QUESTION IS ,WHAT IS THE ANSWER TO THIS DILEMMA?, THE ANSWER DOES NOT LIE OUTSIDE YOUR MARRIAGE. IT LIES WITHIN IT. I AM NOT SAYING YOU COULD NOT FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE,YOU COULD ITS YOUR CHOICE. TEMPORARILY YOU’D BE COMFORTABLE AGAIN, BUT IN THE LONG RUN YOU WILL BE WEARING THE OLD SHOES AGAIN IN A FEW YEARS TO COME, THEREBY FINDING YOURSELF IN TROUBLE

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THE KEY TO SUCCESS IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT’S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND. SUSTAINING LOVE IS NOT AN EASY EXPERIENCE ,THERE ARE LOTS OF CHALLENGES TO IT. IT’LL NEVER JUST HAPPEN TO YOU. YOU CAN’T “FIND” LASTING LOVE .YOU HAVE TO “MAKE” YOUR LOVE LAST , DAY IN AND DAY OUT. THAT IS WHY WE HAVE THE EXPRESSION “THE LABOR OF LOVE”  “IT TAKES TIME , EFFORT, DETERMINATION, PERSEVERANCE, DEDICATION AND ENERGY. AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, IT TAKES WISDOM. YOU NEED TO KNOW WHAT TO DO TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE WORK.
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Trust and Distrust In Marriage And Any Other Relationship

Trust and Distrust

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Trust is the beginning of every good marriage, but when trust is not there anymore, it takes the grace of God for trust to exist again in that relationship. A spouse can forgive, but that painful experience will make it difficult for the offended spouse to let go for fear that it could happen again. For some, it is easier to forgive than to forget. Trusting and getting hurt is bad enough, so, taking chances for the occurrence is not an option? Putting up barriers of protection is not uncommon for a wounded spouse.

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Distrust is very common between spouses especially when one has cheated and this situation might weaken a marriage that needs trust to grow. Distrust is like putting on a guard if in any way there is cheating or occurrence of it again. It is a means of protection. On the other hand, it is certainly not impossible to trust again, but it takes some effort and determination for it usually does not happen easily or quickly in any way.

Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken: Finding Forgiveness and Restoration

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A victim once said after reconciliation with her husband, that she realized what infidelity can cause to a family life and she compared it to a starving dog snatching a beautiful wedding cake. Getting the trust back was like looking for a piece of needle in a haystack but the truth is that the remaining cake was still beautiful, but the unforgettable part is that anytime you look at the remaining cake you kind of miss the complete cake before the dog got into it and that makes you bitter, sad and angry.  the question is, how could a loving spouse take such beauty away from a loved one he promised to cherish? that kind of pain is often indescribable and a lot will surely be affected including Life itself.

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Marriage is not the only institution that has cheating issues . Many  Cheaters victimize their relationships with children, loving friends, other close family members, and even themselves. The bad part about this is that it may affect cheaters’ families because of the pain, embarrassment, and awareness of community gossip it will cause. most times such scandal can lower the value or importance of a family within a community. The whole families may suffer because of it.  A good friend does not want to witness her best friend’s husband in a compromising situation with another women. A member of the family  does not want to hear gossip about their loved one from other people in the community.  the Young people contemplating marriage one day might lose faith and respect in the marriage institution due to this infidelity crisis in the society, and celebrity gossip on the media is not helping either. All of these life experiences are painful for many family members and others to bear when it comes to issues of cheating and infidelity.

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built on trust

The unfortunate thing is that cheating and crisis at home always have very bad or negative effects on the children because it gets them confused and they end up being the most wounded victims. A lot of children suffer silently and some could blame themselves and the bad part is that this parent problem could spill over into the rest of their lives thereby causing various dysfunctions in their own personal families. The best thing to do if situations like this arise is to go for counseling but many families do not look at it that way because many families do not see the need to get it.
Beyond Boundaries: Learning to Trust Again in Relationships

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distrust couples

Cheating is never a good thing both in a marriage or any relationship, and making irrelevant and unnecessary excuses are not acceptable either and as we all know the consequences are always devastating for all parties involved, especially the children and the offended spouse.“Sometime the effects of cheating on the victims involved could be devastating especially, if they end up living that relationship for another and it could be a problem if the parties involved are not fully healed, so the best we can do to avoid any kind of trauma in our lives is being sincere and honest with our friends, spouse and acquaintances.

 

 

WHAT DOES FAITH MEAN TO YOU?

 HOW DO YOU DEFINE FAITH?

Faith from my point of view can mean belief in things hoped for, the trust on things you have not seen but believe in its reality.  Faith is always exercised to wards God and faith means so much trust in what you want that you don’t need any explanation or justification from anywhere and you will not need to doubt or investigate the problem or what you want because you have faith for manifestation.  we can always have the faith that something good will show up afterwards, after working hard or being a good person. it can also be called believing in yourself or in your ability to do a certain task and I think the main idea is something greater than this world. It can also be positive thinking, hope and confidence in our expectations.  sometimes when we have a problem , we always want an assurance or confidence in solution to a problem and that is where we apply faith, so I will say faith is to have confidence and assurance to the healing of our problems.

what do we understand as faith?

what does faith mean?

looking at it critically, I would say faith is having trust and believing in what you have not seen or sure of, just like the quotation which says ” But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering for he that wavers is like  a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed”, “for let not that man think that he shall receive anything of the lord. A double minded mind is unstable in all his ways.” so having faith is an effort to believe that which your commonsense might tell you is not true. It can also be called allegiance  to a course or a person.

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In summary, I will say faith is :

  • confidence or trust in a person or thing

  • Believe that is not based on proof

  • Belief in God or in doctrines or teachings

  • Belief in anything as a code of ethics or standards of merit.

  • A system of a religious belief,  such as the Jewish faith, the Christian faith

  • Obligation of loyalty or fidelity to a person, promise , engagement, e.t.c

  • Observance this obligation, fidelity to one’s promise, oath, allegiance, e.t.c

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SCAM AND TRUST IN A STRANGER

TRUSTING IN A STRANGER

RESULT OF SCAM IS DEBT

DEBT MASTER

LYNDA  WAS ALWAYS ONLINE CHATTING AND MAKING FRIENDS AND RELATING WITH HER FIANCEE’S COUNTRY MEN, MOSTLY ON THE INTERNET,AND WHEN SHE TOLD HIM, HE SAID HE DOES NOT LIKE THAT IDEA OF CHATTING WITH STRANGERS ON THE NET THAT SHE SHOULD BE CAREFUL,BUT SHE REFUSED TO LISTEN AND CONTINUED ANYWAYS,BUT UNFORTUNATELY SOME  TERRIBLE CHAOS HAPPENED, AFTER A LITTLE WHILE.

SHE MET THIS CHATTING FRIEND ONLINE AND THEY HAVE BEEN DISCUSSING FOR A WHILE AND HE KEEPS ASKING FOR MONEY AND SHE WILL SAY SHE HAS NO CASH AND HE WILL LAY LOW BECAUSE OF HIS SPECIAL MISSION, WHICH WAS TO DEFRAUD HER AND HE HAS TO BUILD HER TRUST IN HIM,BUT SHE WAS BLIND TO THE LIGHT,BASED ON THE FACT THAT SHE HAS DEVELOPED TRUST IN THE SO CALLED FRIEND AND THEY HAVE TALKED FOR A LONG TIME AND THE FRIEND PULLED A LONG ONE ON HER,BUT LITTLE DID SHE KNOW THAT IT WAS A HOOK.

AFTER A LOT OF TRIAL TO GET PHYSICAL CASH FROM HER WHICH PROVED ABORTIVE, HE SAW HER ONLINE ONE DAY AND SAID COULD YOU DO ME A FAVOUR,AND SHE SAID SURE AS LONG AS YOU ARE NOT ASKING CASH FROM ME AND HE SAID SURE ,I HAVE A BUSINESS TRANSACTION IN YOUR COUNTRY,COULD YOU PLEASE HELP ME TO CASH THIS CHEQUE? ,FOR THE FACT THAT ITS YOUR COUNTRY AND I WILL ASK YOU TO TAKE SOME PERCENTAGE FROM THE CASH WHEN YOU GET IT AND SHE HONESTLY ACCEPTED TO HELP HIM AS A FRIEND AND ALSO FOR THE FACT THAT SHE BELIEVED, SHE WAS GETTING COMMISSION IN CASH FOR HELPING, SO SHE GOT INVOLVED.

THE BANK KNOWING HER FOR WHOM SHE IS, PAID HER WITHOUT ANY DOUBT , BUT AFTER SOME WEEKS THE CHEQUE COULD NOT CLEAR AND THE BANK DISCOVERED THAT IT WAS A FRAUD CHEQUE AND CALLED HER AND ASK FOR REFUND OF CASH WHICH AUTOMATICALLY INDICATES, THAT ONE NEEDS TO BE CAREFUL WITH THE KIND OF FRIENDS WE MAKE AND WHOM WE RELATE WITH OR TALK TO ONLINE, ESPECIALLY FRIENDS WE DONT REALLY KNOW.WHAT DO YOU THINK?